How to Make Older Children Feel Special during Newborn Session

Welcoming a new baby is a beautiful transition for the entire family, especially for older siblings who are learning to navigate their new role. As a mother and photographer who’s witnessed countless beautiful sibling interactions, I understand the delicate balance of capturing those first tender moments while ensuring older children feel cherished and included. Let’s explore how I can make your older children feel like the superstars they are during your newborn session.

Start with Their Story

The key to a heartwarming sibling and newborn session begins before the camera even comes out. Take time to connect with your older child, letting them share their thoughts about being a big brother or sister. In my sessions, I love to have a chat with kids where they can tell me about their favorite things and their new role in the family. This helps them:

• Feel heard and validated in their emotions
• Build trust with me as their photographer
• Become more comfortable in front of the camera
• Share their excitement about their new sibling

Make Them the Assistant Photographer

It’s fun to give older siblings a special “job” during the session. I love designating them as my official assistant, letting them help with simple tasks that make them feel important and involved. This role gives them a sense of purpose and responsibility, while naturally creating authentic moments to capture. They might:

• Count down to certain shots
• Suggest poses for their new sibling

Capture Individual Spotlight Moments

While the focus might be on the newborn, I can always reserve special time just for capturing your older child’s personality. These individual portraits help remind them that they’re still just as precious and photo-worthy as their new sibling. During this time, I might:

• Take solo portraits that feel timeless
• Capture them doing something they love
• Create special “big sibling” themed photos
• Document their unique expressions and personality

Encourage Natural Interactions

Some of the most touching photographs come from allowing older siblings to interact with their new brother or sister in their own way. Instead of forcing poses, I create safe opportunities for them to express their natural curiosity and affection. This might look like:

• Gentle touches and kisses
• Reading a story to the baby
• Singing their favorite song
• Simply gazing at their new sibling

Celebrate Their New Role

Throughout the newborn session, I continuously acknowledge and celebrate their new role as a big brother or sister. This isn’t just about taking pictures – it’s about documenting a significant milestone in their life. I make sure to:

• Use positive reinforcement
• Praise their gentle behavior
• Acknowledge their help and cooperation
• Create special “big sibling” portraits

Remember, a newborn session is about documenting your family’s growth and the beautiful bonds forming between siblings. By making your older children feel valued and included, I create an environment where genuine emotions and connections can shine through, resulting in photographs that truly tell your family’s story. These precious images will serve as lasting reminders not just of how tiny your newborn once was, but of the beautiful moment your older child stepped into their role as a big brother or sister. Years from now, these photographs will tell the story of not just one baby, but of siblings beginning their lifelong journey together.